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Post by chummer16 on Mar 6, 2017 16:59:23 GMT -6
Way to early. I dated a girl off a divorce when I was in my twenties. I think she introduced me after a month of dating. He was a cool kid and we got along great but she ended the relationship a few months later. I never saw that kid again and often thought that his mom rushed us being a new family. It must have been hard on a 7 year old to have the new guy in his life just disappear. I will also second being very careful with your soon to be ex wife. I have seen this go very bad. My buddies wife asked him for a divorce, everything was going great. He was getting everything he wanted in the divorce. He starts dating, tells the wife, all of sudden she nails his balls to the wall and they starts the process all over with her being a complete bitch. She even went as far as charging he was an unfit parent in court. He 100% believes it was because he told her he was dating. Five years later they stil only speak via text or email.
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Post by Reagan on Mar 6, 2017 18:19:20 GMT -6
Looks like a trend of good suggestions.
It way to early. Don't let some good loving cloud your judgement.
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Post by badbrad on Mar 7, 2017 7:43:19 GMT -6
Thanks guys
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Post by ace on Mar 7, 2017 18:17:50 GMT -6
I'd wait until the summer at least. Ex could literally make it worse, even though she knows....one time of the kids complaining prior to it being finalized could F it up.
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Post by nhmountains on Mar 8, 2017 11:34:23 GMT -6
Brad,
I'd also wait for the divorce to be final. Get that out of the way and then talk to the kids. Having gone through this when I was 6, I think your kids will know more than you think. Your ex may try playing head games with them too. It's not going to be as easy as telling them about your new girl. There will be hurdles big and small after that.
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Post by jselsor on Mar 8, 2017 14:19:35 GMT -6
Got two buddies going through nasty divorces now. Both have spent a shit load of money. Lawyers are the only ones coming out on top. If your lucky enough to have things going smooth I wouldn't do anything to screw that up! I would have been leery to inform the ex I was dating.
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Post by badbrad on Jun 16, 2017 9:45:34 GMT -6
Divorce is final on Monday at 11am. 3 days to go!!!!
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Post by Catscratch on Jun 16, 2017 10:16:02 GMT -6
Divorce is final on Monday at 11am. 3 days to go!!!! The end is in sight! Good luck and finish strong.
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Post by sd51555 on Jun 16, 2017 11:39:42 GMT -6
Good luck man. You're on the goal line.
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Post by Tooln on Jun 16, 2017 19:20:48 GMT -6
Sounds like party time to me.
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Post by badbrad on Jun 16, 2017 20:55:48 GMT -6
Sounds like party time to me. I'm getting fucked up monday. That is all
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Post by nhmountains on Jun 21, 2017 19:32:56 GMT -6
Brad,
You sobered up ok?
Everything go ok or were there any surprises?
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Post by badbrad on Jun 21, 2017 19:46:50 GMT -6
Brad, You sobered up ok? Everything go ok or were there any surprises? Yep. Liver is ok. No major surprises. Very small minuscule changes with the child support but nothing major. Happy it is over
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Post by Tooln on Jun 21, 2017 19:49:21 GMT -6
Glad it worked good for you.
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Post by nhmountains on Jun 22, 2017 18:27:17 GMT -6
Glad it worked out for you Brad.
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